There are times when we all make mistakes.  As friends and as family, we have a choice to make... how do we deal with these mistakes that come up in life?  It is easy to say we forgive each other, forgiveness is a gift that is sometimes overrated and abused.  Forgetting is another story, this one isn't as easy.  So how do we do it; look past and move on.  I think it all goes within the not to dwell upon the mistakes in life and picking yourself up and moving on.  But what does that part of moving on really consist of?  When you are hurt... how long does it take to heal?